Well guys.. here's an update.. it's now been three weeks.. the first week.. i went through some weird phases.. anger, denial, false acceptance.. second week.. rebuilding time.. went apartment hunting with a good buddy of mine who was also looking for a place.. third week.. got a condo.. moved in yesterday.. met a few people.. having some great times.. and casual safe sex.. my ex has become extremely petty.. im working with some of our mutual friends to make sure they hook her up with a good guy.. she seems to attract the worst guys.. i dunno.. i still love her.. i dont want to see her hurt.. and i think she needs to spend some time with someone to get her mind off the breakup. ive set a date with her and i to meet at a starbucks next week and to go over some stuff and see what type of friendship, or any relationship we should have. i resent her but still love her.. so im torn. she would be a great friend if needed, as i think i would be to her.
i just wanted to thank everyone for the replies.. i took in to account all of your experienced replies in my making my decisions these past 3-4 weeks.. and, for myself, have not been this happy in a while. again thank you.
just a ps... my ex hated doing the dishes.. the girl i slpet with last night is in my kitchen right now cleaning up.. what a contrast.. i should go help her though..
thanks again
