My advice based on experience.
First the wanting them around feels kind of reassuring that it's the real thing. Phone sex is fun at the outset. Then it gets old. Then the schedules don't match up. Then resentment sets in. Then it's a matter of time.
Even with weekenders of crazy-fierce sex, partying with the new friends, and getting to know their life "there" - it eventually collapses.
When it does (and I mean when) try and take the best things you can from it and move on. Bitterness only makes you hurt more.
Last edited by bbrown4; 07-15-2004 at 03:05 PM..
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