Yeah, slow down. Also, as scrooloose and lunchbox7 say, kegels will strengthen your muslces in that area and allow you to clamp down on an ejaculation, if you're not ready. I've done this 2-3 times.
And you know, if you put it all off too long and you get a little soft, and your girlfriend has been having a very good time, there's no shame in pulling out. Tell her why, tell her what you need, let her help you get hard again, and go back in. I mean, "Honey, I've lost it a little bit because I got too involved in giving you a lot of orgasms" is probably the best-received excuse you can ever give to a woman.
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