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That can be frustrating. I guess you get to do what you want all the time then :P Does she seem to have opinions on many things, i.e. politics, life, the world, or even what she does and does not like? If you're looking for someone who does you might want to talk to her about that, but it's likely she won't change too much. I've found the 'accept or veto and suggest' technique to be good for making decisions with other people. This is how it works for choosing where to eat, someone suggests a place, then each person in the group either has to accept the suggestion or if they veto they must suggest and different place. There is no veto without subsiquent suggestion. You avoid indecisivness from people who don't like what you want but don't know what they want either. Also no one gets to complain about the selection because everyone has a say. Try it with your girl, that way you don't feel bad about going where you want because you gave her the power to choose what she wanted.
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