Knew my wife for 6 years before but were only a couple for about 2 years, (living together for 1)
We are perfect for eachother, just had 8 yr anniversary.
I know you don't like hearing it but you are so young so take your time. I had a gf when I was 17 that I wanted to marry. When I think of how bad it would have ended up it scares me. We were completely wrong for eachother and it still lasted almost a year. I thank my lucky stars I didn't get that skank pregnant.
Anyway...
one more vote for living together first. If you don't live together you are always on a "date" when you see eachother (even if you don't call it a date, you act different when not at home). You can't know a person without living with them 1st. Hell, I even got along with my parents better after I didn't live with them.
|