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It can be a girl thing, but I've known guys like that, as well.
I've used the 'You decide' cop-out on occasions when I didn't know what the guy liked (as far as food or fun) or if I wasn't sure of his disposable income (never want to pick a place out of his price range - I'm nice like that). However, if it was someone I'd been seeing for 6 months, I think I'd be able to know enough about him to suggest things we'd both like.
It may be an insecurity/uncertainty thing, which has been mentioned. Maybe just be more attuned to things she mentions, so that you can work those into the dates, should she continue to shrug the decision-making off onto you, so you can both enjoy your time together.
But...if she won't decide simple things like where to go or what to eat, is that indicative of something about her personality, and if so, is it something she'll grow out of, or can work on? Those points should be pondered if you're considering a long-term something with her, and how you could deal with all the potential answers to those questions.
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