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Okay, small rant here. You've been involved with your friend's wife for _three weeks_ and you are now thinking of getting out of your marriage?
Why exactly does your marriage suck? You've got two babies at home and your biggest concern is your feelings about this woman? WTF? Do you realize that if you leave your wife and kids that their standard of living will almost be guaranteed to plummet? And you are still going to have to deal with your wife pretty frequently if you get liberal visitation. Or were you thinking of asking for full custody? This is about way more than your feelings. Your behavior will have an enormous impact on your kids whether you stay or go, but don't underestimate the consequences. Unless your wife is physically/emotionally abusive, mentally ill, or a substance abuser and unwilling to change, you can hang in there. Find a more competant counselor-if you are sincere about staying.
And kids don't just snap out of it either. Even the very youngest feel the effects of their parents splitting up.
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