I think we both made mistakes, due to our inexperience, and unfortunately, some mistakes can never get past. No, neither of us cheated on eachother until her on me at the end (kind of, but not really). But we both had mean streaks toward the other at times... we both were hard to be with at times... our lives outside of the relationship was rocky, and that bleeds into it.
I think it is good advice to make yourself and your life comfortable and stable, before you try to inject a genuine relationship into it. You need that good foundation.
I know it has been said many times before, but if we had met much further down the road, after we both had relationship and life experience, and were both settled, it would have probably been completley different. I'm not really that upset about anything, though.
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