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I have to say I'm a bit shocked at some of the replies here, but I'll throw in my bit...
There is no pre-selected "right" time. It's just right when it's right. My wife and I were together for 9 months before we got married. I can honestly say that I've never made a better decision. I was with my ex for four years and was never able to propose. Nothing against her, it just wasn't quite right.
If you think it's a good idea to live together first, then do so. There is NOTHING wrong with it. If either of you are unsure of that for moral or other reasons, then don't... there's nothing wrong with that either!
Do what feels right to you and her, not what your friends think (unless they ALL think something is wrong, then maybe listen a little), or hers, not what family thinks... in the end, it's about the two of you and nobody else!
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