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Tough to say without more information - with a vague question, I'll give a vague reply.
Pick and choose your battles. As Mal said, if it's really important then handle it by discussing it with the SO. If it's not, let it slide. Put it on that little mental file in the back of your mind, so that when you fuck something up, you can pull out your trump card. At this time, the future argument will no longer be about how you fucked up, but will instead be on how she previously fucked up and how you found out about it. At which time you make some inadvertent means by which you found out, instead of working on it 24/7 like Inspector Gadget, and will have safely averted the discussion of your own transgression.
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