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maleficent · 07-05-2004, 07:32 AM

How important is this thing you found out vs how important is your SO to you?

Basically, does knowing what you know, change things between you?

Without knowing what this thing is...
You say you are very open, you have to understand that not everyone is, there's lots of reasons to not to tell somoene something, 1, It's just's none of their business, 2. It might be too painful to talk about. 3. Fear of being judged. 4. It's none of their business -especially if it happened before you were involved.

07-05-2004, 07:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	How important is this thing you found out vs how important is your SO to you? Basically, does knowing what you know, change things between you? Without knowing what this thing is... You say you are very open, you have to understand that not everyone is, there's lots of reasons to not to tell somoene something, 1, It's just's none of their business, 2. It might be too painful to talk about. 3. Fear of being judged. 4. It's none of their business -especially if it happened before you were involved. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.