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TheBrit · 07-05-2004, 04:26 AM

In August I am staying at a friends house in the country for a couple of nights, 3 days. There will be myself, my friend, my friends girlfriend and Fiona.
Saturday night I went to a party. Fiona was there and that was the first time we have met. By the end of the night before she left we were all over each other. Now, I was slightly tipsy at the time and I wouldn't have had the balls to do it if I was sober, but I did do it, and I would do it again.
The problem is I don't want to fuck it up between now and August, because that could make things really complex. I can either just be friends with her, not contact her much between now and August and see how she feels in August, or try for a relationship.
I think if I asked her out she would say yes, she did say something like "I want to meet up before August", which seems hopeful. Problem is if we split up, things could be really really dodgy.
If it wasn't for the whole August thing I would ask her out instantly, but it does change stuff somewhat.

Currently I am thinking I will ask her out and just take it slowly, don't scare her off. Anybody got any feedback or better ideas?

07-05-2004, 04:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
TheBrit Psycho	What to do about this girl I met? In August I am staying at a friends house in the country for a couple of nights, 3 days. There will be myself, my friend, my friends girlfriend and Fiona. Saturday night I went to a party. Fiona was there and that was the first time we have met. By the end of the night before she left we were all over each other. Now, I was slightly tipsy at the time and I wouldn't have had the balls to do it if I was sober, but I did do it, and I would do it again. The problem is I don't want to fuck it up between now and August, because that could make things really complex. I can either just be friends with her, not contact her much between now and August and see how she feels in August, or try for a relationship. I think if I asked her out she would say yes, she did say something like "I want to meet up before August", which seems hopeful. Problem is if we split up, things could be really really dodgy. If it wasn't for the whole August thing I would ask her out instantly, but it does change stuff somewhat. Currently I am thinking I will ask her out and just take it slowly, don't scare her off. Anybody got any feedback or better ideas?