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Originally posted by Manic_Skafe
There is no right time - when it feels right just go for it. Doing otherwise could result in a lifetime of guilt.
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Precisely. No "Right" time. I wouldn't suggest it after 1 or 2 months of course but it all depends on the person. 6 months is logn enough. The statistics say that those couples who have been dating at least 6-12 months succeed better than those who only date less than 6 months. I don't remember where I heard it but my mother told it to me many times when I was a teenager. Ended up because of school, student teaching, hubby moving, and other interruptions that he and I were dating for 1 1/2 years before we got engaged and then we were engaged for 9 months before we got married.
Obviously, Don't get moved in together until you're both 18 at least.
The only thing that makes me wonder is that you both are quite young. It's common for couples who get together when they're young to wonder if there was something else out there for them and they just got married to quick to find it out. Make sure neither one of you have unfulfilled dreams that will be ended by the marriage.
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