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That is, if there are any on his end. It seems to me that the biggest problem here isn't your friends habit, but the way you are letting it effect you and your idea of your friendship with him. Again, if you can't accept your friend, along with his pot smoking, perhaps the best thing for you to do would be not to rely on him anymore. I'm not saying this is about him though. As far as I'm concerned, forgetting to pick up a DVD is hardly a big deal.

I'd say that if this is something that truly bothers you, then the problem is with you, not your friend. I’m not pointing the of finger blame at all, I'm just pointing out that he's not doing anything to hurt anyone. Perhaps you’re accusing him of being neglectful, when his only fault is being forgetful? That’s not really anything to rake someone over the coals for, physically or mentally.

In my opinion, the only thing wrong with smoking pot is that it's not legal. I would never compare it to other harmful drugs. There's no comparison. Now if he were an alcoholic or a heroin, cocaine, or prescription addict etc., and it was destroying his life, as well as effecting your friendship, that would be different. That’s not what it sounds like to me. In my opinion, McDonalds is worse for you than smoking pot. At least the fries, anyway.