anything that brings you and the woman closer or adds another dimension to your relationship can only be a good thing, imho.
my girl never liked it at first. even when i joked about it at the beginning she would get pouty. but once we got more sexually active it didn't seem that bad to her, i think she just opened up and trusted me more. because it was a LDR though we couldn't do it together very often. eventually she preferred the idea of making porn for me. not paris hilton / pamela anderson videos or anything, but just photos. she was shy but liked the idea of me staring at her body than someone else's.
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