In my opinion, I think you should talk to her about your concerns. I doubt she is TRYING to be selfish, and I'm sure she'd like to please you. I know that sometimes I get dog tired during/after sex, and I just can't keep on going.
About the orgasm thing, it sounds more like a comfortability thing to me. This is funny, but my boyfriend just gave me my first orgasm from him last night...and we've been dating for almost 14 months.
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