I think I'm kind of selfish, but I realize it and try to make more of an effort. I would never say finish yourself off, however! Like a BJ is soooo much effort? And what if she wasn't in the mood? At least I will offer a hand job or blow job in place of sex if I'm too tired or whatever.
After I orgasm, my sexual craziness disappears. So I would always try to get him to come at the same time as me, or really quickly after I did. But he likes to experience my orgasm and then prolong his own. Sometimes I still rush him, but I have gotten more into the spirit of teasing him and just enjoying the effect I have on him. He does so much for me in bed and works so hard to be sure I get mine, it's the least I can do!
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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