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Originally posted by powerclown
I can't understand people who get divorced saying they're 'still friends'. Then why didn't you stay married if you are still friends? Doesn't going through the pain of ending a marriage, by definition, mean that the friendship is irrevocably over? Maybe it never meant much in the first place. What am I missing?
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In our case we got married and we shouldnt have we were too young and did it for all the classic reasons you SHOULDNT get married. When we hit our 30's we realized that good friends is all we could be and it was time to admit that and move on. Being able to be friends is not a reason to STAY married when all the other things arent there. Think about your friends...would you want to be married to any of them? Friendship is an important thing in a marriage...but its not the ONLY thing, at least IMO its not