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Interesting.. seems many here think this is an all or nothing game. My only advice is to keep yourself in mind. Forgiveness may well be in order, as well as understanding. However, she's no longer got the right to consider it her problem alone. She's brought it to you, it's now your issue as well. (presuming that you are still upset about it, because if not, then there's no issue) As a result of bringing it to you. She's shared the burden with you, (without your consent, in fact) You are entitled to whatever level of satisfaction you require in exchange for your continued availability.. Not an eye for an eye, but an exchange of value for the value she took. If that means that you need an extended conversation to resolve and close the issue, you may require it. (whether she gives that or not, is her option and decision.).. short version of the story: You do still have the right to make the inquiries or stipulations that you choose. She has the right to refuse.
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