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Originally posted by ShaniFaye
My fiance and I enjoy a very active sex life, there is nothing that we dont enjoy doing to and for each other...if one of us is tired it is not unheard of for the other to just take care of that person....IE blowjobs for him if he's dog tired from work and would just like that intimate time to not be as ummm whats the word...time consuming as it might other wise be...and vise versa for me.
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My apologies if I misread your intention. What you describe here sounds like an ideal relationship to me.
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Originally posted by ShaniFaye
In my mind there is a difference, whether its right or wrong, in appreciation and gratefulness.
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This sounds like a semantical misunderstanding more than anything else. I'd probably use the two words interchangeably ninety percent of the time. For example, I don't see gratitude as self-deprecatory.