Ok...maybe I didnt state what I meant in my post well enuff and it caused your reaction....let me try again
My fiance and I enjoy a very active sex life, there is nothing that we dont enjoy doing to and for each other...if one of us is tired it is not unheard of for the other to just take care of that person....IE blowjobs for him if he's dog tired from work and would just like that intimate time to not be as ummm whats the word...time consuming as it might other wise be...and vise versa for me. I meant that sex is a give and take, that in my opinion it is not some guy telling me in effect "to hurry up and get in the mood so they can get it over with" which is what I took the attitude of the guy the original post was about.
In my mind there is a difference, whether its right or wrong, in appreciation and gratefulness.
I hope that clears up what I said originally and I apologize for any misunderstandings.
