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Originally posted by Great_White
I hear everyone complaining that theyre the nice guy and girls never go for them. And i was like that untill recently. Ive taken the personality tests latley and compared them to before, and its flip flopped. I actually went from introvert to extrovert. So things are way different lately.
Anyways Im pretty sure the key to being a nice guy is establish that you are interested right away. If this is a big problem immediatley start out online. My "e-seducing" skils are impecable at the moment. I mean i hate to be smug but from my experiance this is the best way to do it. Once you figure out that you are interested start flirting. I think the biggest problem with nice guys, is that its hammered in thier heads that girls go for "assholes." This isnt true at all. The nice guys get this idea and lose some confidence. Girls go for the best canidates of the outgoing, confident guys.
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excelent point my friend, see the holw thing behind 'jerks' is that they show that theyre in control and confident through being a 'jerk' while the 'nice guys' project 'im a wuss and you own me', ofcourse you cant be abusive and everything but in my opinion you cant shower a girl with compliments and just be an ass kisser and expect her to like you anything more than a friend...just my opinion.