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Originally posted by lurkette
Hey, she told you about it and is being honest. That's gotta count for something in terms of trusting her. I say talk to her and agree to take some time to think about it, and that could mean being non-exclusive. If she comes back to you and you still want her, bless you both. If not, there's your answer. If you want to be with her and she comes back and is sorry, forgive her and let it go. And I mean really let it go - nobody wants to be beaten over the head with their mistakes. It just makes them more likely to fulfill your low expectations.
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Right on.
She did nothing wrong at all. It's no one's fault that she still has feelings for the person.
In fact, I really respect her for being truthfull about the sitution. I've been there and the thought of keeping it a secret is very appealing. She did the right thing.
You care for the girl , and she cares for you. Give her a little bit of time to straighten her feelings out. Just make sure each of you understand exactly where you stand before you take a break. You don't want one partner thinking they're still exclusive and the other not.
Good luck man!