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Old 06-28-2004, 06:26 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Hey, she told you about it and is being honest. That's gotta count for something in terms of trusting her. I say talk to her and agree to take some time to think about it, and that could mean being non-exclusive. If she comes back to you and you still want her, bless you both. If not, there's your answer. If you want to be with her and she comes back and is sorry, forgive her and let it go. And I mean really let it go - nobody wants to be beaten over the head with their mistakes. It just makes them more likely to fulfill your low expectations.
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