wilbjammin

You don't need to alter your state of consciousness to get girls to like you. It isn't really about being introverted or extroverted, as many girls like that "mysterious" type. All it takes is the will to action. I think what holds most "nice guys" back is the fear of commiting to any action. If you aren't going to go out on a limb and let someone know that you like them, what else aren't you going to do for them? What about for yourself?

Another thing, the "nice guy" thing is a little worn out. I think too many "nice guys" act like martyrs - a victim to everything. "Girls don't like me because I'm too nice" just doesn't make any sense. There is something else going wrong there, and complaining along those lines indicates a problem. You can't control others, but you can certainly change that attitude.

Who wants to be with someone that is victimized by everything? It doesn't appear too nice to me.

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