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Originally posted by BooRadley
Yeah, it is a "generalization" and the author admits there are exceptions, but it still is 97% true. Read it sometime, instead of skimming through it and you would see that.
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I've read it again and again. I've also read alt.fast.seduction... over and over again.
I don't like talking about ladder theory because it really makes me feel like there is no hope. I will always be an intellectual whore, because I'm lonely and expedient.
Using ladder theory has got me in a lot of trouble. Last year I was really close with this girl, in "love" with her, whatever. I realized she had me on the ladder theory and burnt my bridges with her. We argued about it for the next 2 months. She told me that she hadn't ruled me out, but had realized that dating me would be a big commitment, because she liked me so much. If I had given her more time, I think things might have worked out differently for us.
I guess the point is, ladder theory is okay, but it doesn't work for everyone.