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Unfortunately this does sound like a maturity thing....
The general pattern for messing around that I'm trying to get into is thus:
Get my girl to orgasm (usually through mouth and hands)
Have her get me to orgasm.
Get her to orgasm, or very close (I prefer very close...tease her until she begs)
Have sex.
We get to play, she gets to come, and I last a good bit of time inside of her. It seems to work well.
It is possible he just loses his erection while eating you or messing with you, this happens to me sometimes, but is generally pretty easily corrected. You may want to talk to him about it and let him know that it is ok and normal for this to happen. It somewhat concerned me when it first occured.
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