It seems you just aren't sexually compatible. You who want to enjoy sex as much as your partner and he who couldn't care less if you did.
Witholding sex is a bad move aswell, it's a good way of losing a loved one just because of a difference of opinion.
If you can't sit down and have a rational discussion about this and make him see what is wrong with his attitude twoards it then I say dump him, If that doesn't make him reconsider then nothing is.
If he reconsiders then he'll probarbly come crawling back. If he doesn't, there is still plenty of fish in the sea for you.
Why should you be stuck with a guy who doesn't feel it is necessary that you enjoy sex aswell, when there are so many other guys out there who wish nothing more than to please you in whatever way possible.
It sound's to me that he is very immature, if he doesn't even understand that there is a difference in how men and women are wired then you'd be better off without him. If you let this continiue then it has 'destructive relationship' written all over it.
I might sound a bit harsh on this but I am a cynic when it comes to relationships so please take my words with a grain of salt.
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Last edited by Cervantes; 06-28-2004 at 09:26 AM..
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