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Nice Guys
I hear everyone complaining that theyre the nice guy and girls never go for them. And i was like that untill recently. Ive taken the personality tests latley and compared them to before, and its flip flopped. I actually went from introvert to extrovert. So things are way different lately.
Anyways Im pretty sure the key to being a nice guy is establish that you are interested right away. If this is a big problem immediatley start out online. My "e-seducing" skils are impecable at the moment. I mean i hate to be smug but from my experiance this is the best way to do it. Once you figure out that you are interested start flirting. I think the biggest problem with nice guys, is that its hammered in thier heads that girls go for "assholes." This isnt true at all. The nice guys get this idea and lose some confidence. Girls go for the best canidates of the outgoing, confident guys.
Another thing is worrying too much before you do something. Seriously, if you do something, and she doesnt like it, why bother?
Whats the worst thats gonna happen? You establish that she isnt interested instead of just sitting there wondering and worrying?
Thats about all i have on this at the moment. Im just kinda getting tired of all the nice guys finish last type things. But seeing as i was like that up till awhile ago, i cant blame you.
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