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Originally posted by SinisterMotives
I'm not saying that wouldn't be selfish of him, but by the same token I'm wondering what you do to keep him interested while he's helping you get in the mood.
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I think this could have something to do with it. When I'm giving oral sex to my partner I often lose my erection. It's sexy, of course, and I love doing it, but I'm concentrating so much on giving her pleasure that I lose my hard-on.
Perhaps (and this is just a thought and might not be true, we can't tell either way from your post) he's getting frustrated and is losing his 'mood' while he's trying to turn you on. This doesn't mean he's an immature asshole. If you aren't turned on then you can't have sex, and it's the same for him. If he's spending so much effort turning you on and he loses the mood for himself then it's the same problem, just reversed.
That all said, if he's still hard by the time you're turned on enough then I'd say that my theory isn't the case, and he may just be an impatient asshole.