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wonderwench · 06-26-2004, 05:01 PM

Oh dear. I don't really know how to give you advice on this one that you will want to hear.

So here goes. You and your boyfriend have a disconnect that sounds potentially rather serious to me. How well one respect's one's partners preferences is an indicator of compatibility in other things. Your boyfriend is not hearing what you have to say about what makes sex enjoyable for you - and what makes it a turn on for him is not arousing for you in return.

A wise woman once told me that the secret to a good relationship is Communication And Lubrication. Perhaps a bit more of both will enable him to enjoy foreplay and for you to get heated more quickly. I wish I had something more to concrete to offer. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.

06-26-2004, 05:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
wonderwench Banned	Oh dear. I don't really know how to give you advice on this one that you will want to hear. So here goes. You and your boyfriend have a disconnect that sounds potentially rather serious to me. How well one respect's one's partners preferences is an indicator of compatibility in other things. Your boyfriend is not hearing what you have to say about what makes sex enjoyable for you - and what makes it a turn on for him is not arousing for you in return. A wise woman once told me that the secret to a good relationship is Communication And Lubrication. Perhaps a bit more of both will enable him to enjoy foreplay and for you to get heated more quickly. I wish I had something more to concrete to offer. Good luck, I hope things work out for you. Last edited by wonderwench; 06-26-2004 at 05:55 PM..