I mean, I am a little excited, but its not like I have any expectations, other than she wouldnt have given me her number if she at least didnt want to talk to me again. I dont know if she would want to go on a date anyway, but if she gave me her number there has to be a fairly good chance she would - because normally, I just tend to hang out with girls and somehow clumsily stumble into relationships, Ive never dated anyone before I didnt know as a friend before I dated them,,, I have only ever really had two real girlfriends, so I am not so experienced.
I guess, I know how you mean about the movie, I feel the same way too that it is stupid to go on a date when you cannot talk, I guess maybe a movie is very non threatening... crazy golf or bowling could be good ideas, or maybe just I will try to engineer an accidental meeting somewhere (like "are you going to this thing/ oh yeah, me and my friends were going to that/ah, so was I, I will see you there maybe...?)
But then again that might sound kind of lame, the thing is I am not normally that confident, so I think I need to not act as self depreciating as I normally do, but I dont want to go too far the other way and come across as arrogant!
I mean, she was mad flirting with me when we spoke, at least I think she was... but she might just be that way... I was going to wait one day and call her tomorrow. I mean, is that ok? And maybe if we had a good conversation see if she wanted to meet next week.
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