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Originally posted by Menoman
Wearing a bra or not wearing a bra couldnt be a choice that your feelings tell you is something that will change yourself.
It's like Ohhh, which Tshirt will I wear today fa la la
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that's really besides the point. the point is she's choosing to not wear a bra. and it bothers you. that's fine. but what I am saying is that it's her choice, although it's great for you to express your feelings. now the choice is still and always was in her hands whether to start wearing a bra or to continue to not wear one. the feelings she may have are "i feel good when i don't wear a bra", therefore, she makes the choice to continue not wearing one. She could change by accepting the way
you feel and start wearing bras. but to her, it may not be that big of a deal, she does not see it the way you do.
Just ask yourself, is this issue worth hanging onto or would you like her to be her and be content and just let it go? I'm not saying you're wrong, but if you do pressure her or show her too much discomfort with this, that will effect you, her, and your relationship together. Ask yourself why it bothers you so, and contimplate that to see if it's something that you want to affect you.