There is a huge difference between putting blame on someone and recognizing that a pattern of poor judgement led to something happening.
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What to do to Reduce the Risk of a Sexual Assault
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Don't leave your beverage unattended or accept a drink from an open container, or a stranger, or someone you don't trust.
When you go to a party, go with a group of friends. Arrive together, watch out for each other, and most important.....leave together.
Be aware of your surroundings at all times.
Don't allow yourself to be isolated with someone you don't know or trust.
Think about the level of intimacy you want in a relationship and clearly state your limits.
Above all else.....trust your instincts!
And remember....even if you are cautious, you may still become the victim of rape. WHATEVER you do to survive the assault is the RIGHT thing to do
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