IMO someone who has cheated has crossed the line and shown that they are capable of cheating, if only once. Whether or not they will repeat their actions is up to the person.
I think the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is more indicative of the insecurities of the other half of the relationship than the proclivities of the offender. it's a cliche that tries to give a generic answer to a question that doesn't always fit the mold.
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