Contact the INS about a K-1 fiance Visa. If you get a lawyer, you are almost guaranteed approval, it will take half as long, and you won't have to worry about it yourself.
Or just go here:
http://www.us-immigration.com/store/...howProduct/101
or here:
http://www.usavisanow.com/k1fianceevisainfo.html
My free legal advice for the day. Who said lawyers aren't good people?