Fallon, can't you hear how selfish you sound? You went and did this thing, but you WANT us, practically DEMAND of us, the relative community at large, to commiserate with you? Sure, you hurt somebody, but think of your feelings? Think of how much this hurts the cheater as well as the cheated? How dare you? Seriously, where do you or any other cheater get off trying to compare how bad you feel to how bad the person that gets cheated on feels?
My favorite things is where various cheaters have posted that they weren't in a good situation, that the other person wasn't perfect either, and that, come on, dressed like that, at that time of night, in that neighborhood, she was just begging for it.
Grow up. You did a truly awful thing. Stop asking for forgiveness, you don't deserve it. Not that the balance of your life couldn't still qualify you as a good person, but that mark will always be there. Live with it, don't do it again, stop whining about how everyone looks down on you for it, and just move on.
And in all seriousness, did you truly expect people who don't cheat and have been cheated on to even WANT to empathize with you? Unreal.
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