using your example
first...I wouldnt be with a guy that couldnt be comfortable with how ever I wanted to dress whenever I wanted to do it...that said I believe I do know how to dress appropriately ie..I wouldnt go to a wedding wearing no bra but I have no problem not wearing one around my parents OR his (Im a 42 DD) but it certainly wouldnt be in a see thru top the idea of our parents seeing me that way would give me the willies...although around our friends would be a different story...
second...I think any female that does something out of spite, which is what this actually is, should have her ovaries removed and a set of balls sewn on because she obviously wants to try to wear the pants in the relationship.
My nature is such that my behaviour/way I dress/etc doesnt usually need to be reproached, because I know how to behave/appear in most given situations BUT IF I goofed and my honey said something I most certainly wouldnt do the opposite just to get back at him....I did that too many times as a teenager with my parents and it backfired just about every time
