I'm 19 now and i was spanked when i was younger, myself and my two brothers on occasion, when we deserved it. My parents never beat any of us, and we're all well behaved and have learned from the mistakes we've made (for the most part, i mean i'm still young right?)... I'm not quite sure if i plan on spanking my future children, but I understand the reasoning behind it and as much as it sucked, we needed it....
btw, sexymamma, reading your advice there had some absolutely brilliant ideas. It gave me a more positive out look on parent/child relationships and how to raise better behaved children. Thanks
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