Its very difficult to fight with someone you care about. Its worse to loose sight of whats important to the both of you. Try to work things out using each others methods of understanding.
If she responds to less aggressive forms of communication and you prefer to sit down and hash things out once and for all then comprimise is important.
You both saw something in each other that made it worth being together. Now its time to do some work. For each other try to work things out for the right reasons not the wrong ones.
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"Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man
affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in
darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening
to repetitive electronic music."
-Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989
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