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-Intelligent
-Has a sense of humor (non-standard sense of humor a requirement, don't look at me funny when I tell an off-color joke)
-Not prejudiced. Racial slurs, pool of insults entirely based on accusations of homosexuality, stuff like that, just forget it. Not worth my time.
-Must like loud music. If you can't at least tolerate death metal, you're not going to have much fun when I turn on the music.
-Not religious. If you're a churchgoing type of person, we're going to drive each other completely fucking insane.
-Can understand that a male who likes cats and not dogs is not automatically gay.
-Open-minded. Not just in bed (or wherever we may end up instead,) but in everyday life. Look at things in a new way, think outside the box.
-Non-smoker. Cigars (occasionally) OK, cigs not.
-Should not have a problem with drinking, although heavy drinking is not preferred.
-Doesn't want to change me. I'll discard annoying habits, but if you look at me as a piece of clay to play with, you're looking at the wrong person
-Be laid-back. Don't take things too seriosuly. Live life like you're here to have fun, not like you're here to do as much work as possible before you die.
-Be fun, spontaneous, be willing to decide to go on vacation one day and leave two days later. Be willing to do stuff just for the sake of fun and without much planning.
-Be touch-oriented. I'm not talking about the annoying touchyfeely couples who stop to make out and grope each other every ten feet in public (insert virtual kick-in-the-ass to my brother and his girlfriend here,) but it's nice to be with someone who likes physical contact, even when not connected to sex. A good example of this is that I'm extremely ticklish; one of my friends loves to prove that she can knock me over in just a few seconds even though I'm more than a foot taller than her.
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