Someone who never lies to me -- is always honest, even when it hurts
Someone who respects my independence
Someone who has his own boundaries
Someone who speaks his truth and hears my truth -- even if we agree to disagree
Someone very intelligent (who can watch a movie without asking, "what's going on", can carry on a conversation, hold his own with me.)
Someone who accepts (loves) my children
Someone who turns me on sexually and celebrates my sexuality
Someone who has just as much fun dressing up and going out on the town as hanging out at home, playing games with the kids, and watching videos
Someone who will travel with me
Someone who will dream with me
Someone who will explore with me
Someone who wants me for more than just my parenting skills
Someone who shares the "workload" around the house
Someone with pride
Someone who is spiritual
Someone who loves me for who I am and not what he thinks I can be
Someone who's "warts" I can live with as I know I can't change him
Someone who spoils me
Someone who can dominate me, despite my strength, but not squelch me
Someone who is committed to me and only me
Someone who loves me!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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