impulse03

As most people above have said, Confidence is the key man.

I know your situation...I'm a fairly skinny guy, I'd say average in looks, but all through highschool I always had trouble becoming close friends with girls. I was always afraid of what their opinons of me were, and was always trying to impress them in some of the stupidest ways possible ( I didnt realize this till i looked back on it).

However, now I have completely changed. I have an amazing girl friend now and we are in an amazing relationship. I'm still the same skinny guy that I was in highschool (I gained a little muscle mass from going to the gym, but its nothing all that noticable), but all my old friends and even classmates that I see tell me that I seem so much different. That difference stems from my outlook on life. I stopped caring about what other people think of me. Forget other people's opinions and do not let them dictate your outlook and life. You need to be yourself.

This is gonna sound stupid, but just tell yourself, I'm damn goodlooking, I'm confident, I can do that...etc. If you can stop caring about what other people think of you and just be yourself, you will see a change. Trust me, and trust all of us TFP members who tell you confidence is key, because it really is.

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