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Originally posted by everquestjoe
The number one thing that I look for in a 'special person' is if she can be her 100% self around me, and I can be my 100% self around her. If that isn't the case, it will never work.
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Good 'un. I find myself pushing others away often, usually because of that one criterium: if I
can push 'em away by being "me", then let's get it over with quickly. If they don't go away at that point, I can put more into the relationship. Very few people stick through that, though. That's absolutely
key. There have been times when the reverse hasn't worked, too, and I haven't stuck with a person.
What else?
Must like cats.
Prefer a Jewish woman.
Should like genre fiction, preferably SF.
Would be good if she was w/in 5 years + or - of my age.
Must be patient.
Other issues are hard to state in words.