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Allow me to back up onetime2's position. What's the worst that comes out of asking her out? She says no. She might very well have felt awkward about you asking her out, after mentioning that she didn't have any money. Or maybe she doesn't want to be the one to bring it up - not to sound condescending, but from my memory, girls in high school (guys in high school too) really don't know what the hell is going on - so much melodrama and unresolved issues and all that. You'll find out ten years later that some girl you could hardly breathe around wanted to jump your bones the entire time, but just didn't know how to tell you or some crazy-ass shit like that. You don't have to make it like Prince Charming on a horse to ask her out - just confident and as though you want to have a good time. Not necessary a good time, but a good time. Shoot, the hard part is already over...as I recall, the hardest part was having some fabricated excuse to call. You're already in. If she says "no," it's hardly unlikely that she'll say "No, you scumbag. I'm am disgusted in the knowledge that you find me attractive. I hereby banish you to a distance of fifty feet at all times." You can recover the friendship if she says "no." I've done it.
Long story short : There's always a chance, and you've lost nothing if she says no. Not in the long run.
Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are "what might have been?"
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