Alcohol lessens inhibitions, so if you usually fight after drinking, it might be because you're holding back on how you feel most of the time. If that's the case, you've got a communication problem - you've both got to learn to resolve issues as they happen, instead of holding them in and letting them fester until the next night of drinking lets them all out at once.
Or, maybe one or both of are just asses when you drink. A lot of people are. Or maybe one or both of you drink too much, and that sets the other's mood for the night because it's at the root of your problems. Only you can answer that. How about not drinking for a couple months and see if it helps?
In any case, I wouldn't advise marriage until this is resolved - getting married certainly won't make it disappear.
Good luck.
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