I did that whole no strings attached one night stand sort of thing and I absolutely hate it. I had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year relationship and thought I needed to experience everything I had been missing out on. I found out that for me..sex without love or at least having feelings for the other person lessens the whole experience. I like to have that emotional connection with the other person. Did I do it again?? Yes I did..but I got a great boyfriend out of the deal