I agree about the differing needs deal. As a bisexual, sometimes I'm asked, "Which do you prefer?" That's just way to broad to answer. Everyone even within genders brings something different to the table. You can't just pick a favorite star.
In the hetero world, I know a guy that has a big problem. He cheats on his girlfriend. Now that doesn't mean he doesn't care for her. He loves his girlfriend deeply, and they make love. The only problem is, he loves her too much to fuck her. Whenever he cheats, it's always with the same German exchange student. He pulls her hair, punches her in the face, calls her a Nazi bitch, she digs her nails in--basically some hard fucking.
This guy needs to make love and needs to make hate. He can't do it with the same person. What does a guy do in such a situation?
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