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Originally posted by ruggerp11
Once a cheater always a cheater.
This is simply not true. How many times in your life have you made a mistake and never repeated it again? I make many mistakes daily that I will not ever make again.
I will say that some people will always be cheaters but not all. I regret to say that I cheated on an ex once but since I made that mistake I have not made it again. I have had opportunities and what not, but I have not taken up on them.
Now it is easy to be cynical about these things, but is it really that hard to see someone learn from their mistakes? I don't think so.
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Maybe they won't cheat on the next person they get with if they've learned their lesson and actually experienced some guilt... but if they cheat on you and you forgive them it is likely they will cheat on you again because you have tacitly told them it's okay if they disrespect you because you'll always forgive and forget.