Interesting topic....
I am pretty new here, but I think I could add to this discussion. I am currently in a relationship where my girlfriend cheated on me. It puts the cheated person in a huge dilema. Do you forgive this person that cheated on you? Now knowing they are capable of it. I personally do not know that answer as of yet. I see forgiveness as an ongoing process. One which I have decided to follow. However, I highly doubt that I will be nieve enough to think she could not do it to me again.
I think one thing that is missed here... The cheated did not cause the act. Only the cheater did. It boils down to something inside the person to run off on their significant other.
My 2 cents that are a wreck because of infidelity.
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